No One Believes that this woman is 33 years old.
If you would look at her carelessly, you could simply assume that she’s a kid, but she’s not.
Um, she’s a 33 year old woman trapped in a toddler’s body, but even so, she’s a mother of this, and most people often come here and get surprised wondering how Brenda is the one who produced this baby.
They look at her and say the baby is tall.
I delivered my baby prematurely at only seven months.
The belly was too big and I could no longer walk.
I was feeling unbearable pain with three tumors inside the uterus and told doctors to help me because I was almost dying.
I thought the baby was born premature.
She’s doing great right now, at seven months.
On the other hand, she has a painful part of her life story.
When I was in Uganda, I met Brenda, the most petite woman I have ever said, but her disability was no excuse.
Meet Brenda, a woman whose remarkable Journey defies all expectations.
My name is Brenda, an artist and an actress.
I am glad that God gave me the honor to become a mother, as many people had discouraged me due to my stature, but now I’m a mother to a beautiful daughter.
She might look young, but she’s a grown-up woman who sings and even act in some movies.
Despite her physical challenges, she has got the mental capacity of an adult and she’s determined to fight for her independence and raise her beautiful baby.
But what are some of the challenges Brenda faces in asserting her independence and being recognized as an adult in a society that often judges based on appearances?
Was born with a short stature, also known as dwafez, which is shortness in stature that results from genetic or medical condition, and due to this condition, some people consider her to be younger.
Yet she’s a grown-up woman.
I was raised by my grandmother back in the village, then came here in Kampala looking for a better life.
So I learned art as a waving mat, sweaters, baskets, hats making carpets and more, which I sell foreign, overlooked at her and some going too far, with some derogatory and negative words telling her that she’ll never find a lava, get a husband and start a family.
But she gave them deaf ears and kept believing in herself and later met a man who loved her so much, and the rest is history.
To be honest, I never got married legal.
I met a man and we both fell in love.
He loved me for who I was and never cared on my height.
What then started living together, but after impregnating me, he later abandon me.
During her pregnancy, despite being abandoned by the husband, she also had some tumors inside her belly, and these frightened her even more as she feared that she might have abortion or other problems for her and her unborn babies.
I was worried with too much fear, as I felt unbearable pain.
My doctor told me not to worry.
He said it.
I had three tumors inside my belly near the uterus, but I sure admits at all will be fine and that I’ll be treated.
But the pain kept becoming too much that I requested doctors to help me and then delivered prematurely at seven months via cesarean delivery.
Now my baby is doing well and she has seven months, and whenever I’m with her I feel happy because God did more than what I ever expected.
When I was pregnant I thought that my baby would come with the same bluffus, but she has a normal station and I’m grateful for that.
After giving birth, The Love Story between me and the husband came to an end, but we still talk on the phone where he asked me how the daughter is doing, but I would request him to take care of his responsibilities as a father and provide for his daughter.
Yes, I’m her mother.